4 Things You Should Never Do If You Are Single

It pays to wait for the right person I life. Being single in this 21^st Century is one of the bravest and respected act ever found among opposite sex. Single they say is freedom, but is not easy task for one to perform or passes through. It only takes the mindset of one to be single even if that person has a chance to be in any kind of relationship.

• Not listening to your intuition: If it doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. Women especially have incredible intuitions and need to listen to them.

• Putting your life on hold: Don’t wait to pursue a job or a promotion or a college degree until you find someone. Set personal goals and go after them. You can buy a house or condo without a man. You can travel without a male companion. I know a lady who was almost 30 before she met the man she would eventually marry. She didn’t focus on meeting someone; she focused on herself. And the truth is… an independent, well-centeredwoman is indeed attractive to men of the same caliber.

•  Go after someone that is not really available: First of all, you will be cheating yourself, as someone in a committed relationship already is not going to be able to provide the time and love that you deserve. Second of all, it’s just plain wrong. But you should also think about this: if he cheats on his wife, what makes you think he won’t cheat on you, too?

•  Settling: Don’t lose focus of your basic values just to have a date. He may be a hunk, but if he’s cheap or disrespectful, it’s only going to lead to disappointment.

It’s often true what they say about love: it comes when you least expect it. So enjoy your life now and before you know it, Mr. Right will show up.